Drama in Relationship

Why is it in life that people want to have confrontations with others or put themselves in situations where this can occur. It must be human nature to boost the natural adrenaline in the body to want to act in such a manner. There always comes a time in a relationship where the individuals will not always share the same viewpoints on how things should be handled. Often times this can be settled before things escalate into a more serious problem. The reason things get worse is because pride gets involved. Pride is one of the biggest killers of happiness every invented and the biggest pill that no one seems to be able to swallow at the right time until its to late. Learn to give and take and when to go with the flow and when to battle for what you believe in. Do not start WWIII just because you can not eat at your pick of the restaurant tonight. A person that starts off dating and tries to take over everything will probably be that same way later on down the road. Look around in life and dating situations you have seen or been in yourself. Then think back to what caused the end to those relationships chances are pride was a big factor in why things ended. Why would anyone want to place that much stress in their life? I don't care if your dating the princess or prince of the world NOBODY and i mean NOBODY is worth the stress on your life of daily drama from wanting to be controlling. If they cheat on you once go ahead and leave them right then. Being a cheater or thinking that a person will change after that one time you catch them is the dumbest thing in the world. In the first place if they are cheating on you and you some how happen to find out then what does that say about that person morals in the first place. By them cheating in the first place notes one of two things apparently you were not taking care of your responsibilities as the significant other, or they just don't like you as much as they let on in the first place. Staying with the person that cheated on you or giving them multiple chances to straighten out things just makes you either desperate or stupid probably some of both. The same goes for people in abusive relationships not just physical but mentally. If they call you bad names one moment then five minutes tell you they love you so much then you fall under that category as well. The moral overall is that being with another person should not feel like an eternal struggle all the time, and fool me once shame on me but fool me twice shame on me.